53_Learning to communicate God’s way

Heb 1:1-2 Long ago, at many times and in many ways, God spoke to our fathers by the prophets, 2 but in these last days he has spoken to us by his Son, whom he appointed the heir of all things, through whom also he created the world.

The Message translation of Proverbs 25:11 beautifully captures the essence of communication: “The right word at the right time is like a custom-made piece of jewelry.” There is an undeniable beauty and value in a fitly spoken word. God, the Creator of all things, practices this art with a master hand. Throughout Scripture, we see Him communicating in varied ways. As Hebrews 1:1 tells us, in these last days, He has spoken to us through His Son. This reveals not only the depth of His message but also His unparalleled skill as a communicator.

The conversations between God and Moses in Exodus 3 and 4 illustrate the fact that communication is far more than just a verbal exchange. It is more than sharing ideas or views. It is the sharing of one’s heart. In these chapters, God demonstrates principles that are timeless and transformative, both for spiritual growth and for practical application in our relationships.

God begins by capturing Moses’ attention. In a seemingly ordinary wilderness, He uses a burning bush that is not consumed by the fire. This unusual sight draws Moses in, and he says, “I will turn aside to see this great sight, why the bush is not burned.” God’s method reminds us that effective communication begins with connection. He speaks to us in ways that resonate with our experiences and capture our curiosity. Similarly, when Nathan confronted David about his sin against Uriah and Bathsheba, he didn’t start directly. Instead he told a story that drew David in and elicited his judicial response, leading up to Nathan’s accusation. The Lord also often used parables, like the story of the two debtors, to connect with His listeners and convey deep truths.

When we approach someone after a long absence or for the first time, it helps to establish common ground. Finding a shared connection opens the door for meaningful communication. God did this by introducing himself to Moses, “I am the God of your father—the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob.” This assured Moses of God’s identity and authority, setting the stage for their dialogue.

Empathy is another hallmark of God’s communication. He acknowledged Moses’ fear, and the suffering of the Israelites, saying, “I have certainly seen the oppression of My people who are in Egypt, and have heard their outcry because of their taskmasters, for I am aware of their sufferings.” God’s words show deep compassion and understanding, creating a safe space where Moses could engage with him. Similarly, after His resurrection, Jesus calmed the disciples’ fears by showing them His hands and feet and eating with them. Empathy builds trust and opens hearts.

Clarity of communication is another essential element. God clearly explains His mission: “I have come down to rescue them from the power of the Egyptians and to bring them up from that land to a good and spacious land, to a land flowing with milk and honey.” By describing His purpose and plan, God alleviated Moses’ uncertainties. Clarity in purpose and in details helps avoid misunderstanding and fosters confidence.

God also gave Moses step-by-step instructions, knowing Moses lacked experience for the monumental task ahead. From speaking to the elders of Israel to approaching Pharaoh, God outlined the process in detail. This thoroughness reflects God’s awareness of human limitations, and His commitment to equip us for His work. Similarly, when God instructed Noah to build the ark, He provided precise dimensions and specifications. Later, when He directed Moses to construct the Tabernacle, He detailed the materials, dimensions, and the people to be involved with their precise roles. Such meticulous guidance underscores the importance of preparation and precision in effective communication of a task.

God told Moses what role he would play in this mission. He said to Moses, “And now come, and I will send you to Pharaoh, so that you may bring My people, the sons of Israel, out of Egypt.” Clearly defining roles ensures that everyone knows their responsibilities and contributes effectively to achieve a common goal.

Listening is at the heart of meaningful communication. God listened to Moses’ objections and addressed each one, from his feelings of inadequacy to his concern about how the Israelites would receive him. God’s willingness to listen mirrors His character as described in Psalm 102:17: “He will listen to the prayers of the destitute, for He is never too busy to heed their requests.” James 1:19 reinforces this principle: “Everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger.” Listening not only honors the other person but contributes to the dialogue.

Patience is a virtue that God exemplifies in this conversation. Despite Moses’ repeated objections and hesitations, God remained patient. He reassured Moses over and over, a stark contrast to our often hurried and dismissive attitudes. Proverbs 18:13 warns against answering before listening, calling it folly and shame. True patience allows us to understand and address concerns thoughtfully.

Communication also ensures that everyone involved in a task is informed. God not only spoke to Moses but also prepared Aaron, instructing him to meet Moses in the wilderness. Similarly, in the New Testament, when God spoke to Mary about the birth of Jesus, He also instructed Joseph through a dream. Peter and Cornelius, Paul and Ananias are other examples of this principle. In each instance, God ensured that all parties were aligned, preventing confusion and fostering unity.

Finally, God summarized His instructions and emphasized the important aspects. This ensures clarity and accountability. Jesus did the same in His Great Commission, summarizing His authority, the disciples’ mission, and His promise of His presence.

God’s communication with Moses reveals His character: He is empathetic, clear, patient, and thorough. Good communication is not just a skill or an efficient practice. It reflects God’s work in us, being founded on good sense, precision, patience, empathy, and understanding.

For those gifted as evangelists, preachers, or teachers, the call to communicate God’s message is critical. Paul’s instruction to Timothy in 1 Timothy 4:16 is a timeless reminder: “Pay close attention to yourself and to the teaching; persevere in these things, for as you do this you will save both yourself and those who hear you.” To communicate effectively, we must first be obedient to God’s message ourselves. Our words gain power when our lives align with His truth, and we are filled with his Spirit. This requires a consistent walk with God. Prayer is an indispensable part of this process but so is the hard work of study and self-discipline.

Let us remember that God, the greatest communicator, wants us to reflect His glory in how we speak and listen. Whether in our families, workplaces, or ministries, we can convey His grace and truth. Let us honor God by communicating with clarity, empathy, and love, pointing others to the hope we have in Christ. Our ultimate message is Christ and Him crucified. But the Spirit makes Christ known in our words and deeds. Let us share His message faithfully, both in word and deed. God bless you.